| Location | Stockton On Tees |
| Age | 61 years |
| Date of Birth | 2/1947 |
| Date of Death | 5/2008 |
| Visitors | 444 since 06/06/2008 |
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Brenda Harland was born Febuary 14th 1947 she was one of 6 children,she lived with her mam dad brothers and sisters in norton.She was married to the late Harry Harland who also passed away, she had a son called danny and 3 grandchildren, Jake,Brooke and Joshua who she loved so much, she spent her days working for debt company and met many friends,she was like an agony aunt to them,she had a good sence ov humour,and would tell you what she thought..Brenda was taken into hospital in may 2008 with pneumonia and had a heart attack,all her family were with her hoping she would get better..She passed away may 21st 2008 at just aged 61.she left us with all happy memories and will be missed dearly..R.I.P XXXXXX
love you loads
just a few words i have to say, you were there for me when i needed you, listened to what i had to say, gave me the advice i needed and the words i needed to hear. most of all, ill never break our promise, ill always take care of my mum for you. rest in peace. love, gemma,claire and liam x x x
i lost a aunty with a heart of gold , how much i miss her can never be told, she shared my troubles and helped me along, if i follow her footsteps i will never go wrong love sharon, and family x x x
God looked around his garden
and found an empty place
He then looked down upon this earth
and saw your tired face
He put his arms around you
and lifted you to rest
God’s garden must be beautiful
He always takes the best
He knew that you were suffering
He knew you were in pain
He knew that you would never
get well on earth again
He saw that the road was getting rough
and the hills are hard to climb
So he closed your weary eyelids
and whispered, “Peace be thine”
It broke our hearts to lose you
But you didn’t go alone
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home
Our thoughts are ever with you
Though you have passed away.
And those who loved you dearly
Are thinking of you today.
The Day God Took You Home
In tears we saw you sinking,
And watched you pass away.
Our hearts were almost broken,
We wanted you to stay.
But when we saw you sleeping,
So peaceful, free from pain,
How could we wish you back with us,
To suffer that again.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you did not go alone,
For part of us went with you,
The day God took you home.
miss you
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Message * gentle jesus up above give brenda all your love x x your very missed brenda, i miss you calling round every wednesday ,it doent seem real that your not here anymore.until we meet again my friend may you shine with all the stars because a star is what you are. goodnight godblessxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
missing you soo much xxxxxxx
Footprints in the Sand
One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.
In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,
other times there were one set of footprints.
This bothered me because I noticed
that during the low periods of my life,
when I was suffering from
anguish, sorrow or defeat,
I could see only one set of footprints.
So I said to the Lord,
'You promised me Lord,
that if I followed you,
you would walk with me always.
But I have noticed that during
the most trying periods of my life
there have only been one
set of footprints in the sand.
Why, when I needed you most,
you have not been there for me?'
The Lord replied,
'The times when you have
seen only one set of footprints in the sand,
is when I carried you.'
A Bridge Called Love
It takes us back to brighter years,
to happier sunlit days,
and to precious moments
that will be with us always.
And these fond recollections
are treasured in the heart
to bring us always close to those
from whom we had to part.
There is a bridge of memories
from earth to Heaven above...
It keeps our dear ones near us
It's the bridge that we call love.
sending all my love to you Emma xxx
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, 'I welcome you.'
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.'
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......'My day was not in vain.'
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me

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